Live life of choosing

Live a life of choosing, not one that is chosen for us.

(I've heard something along these lines for sure but the wording above is my own).

Cooked notes

"In ancient Greece, the word for cook, buther and priest was the same--mageiros--and the word shared a root w "magic". p. 4

Eat that frog!

“Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.”

Heaven under our feet...

“Heaven is under our feet as well as over our heads.” Thoreau

Mandela quotes

"I like friends who have independent minds because they tend to make you see problems from all angles." - Nelson Mandela, 1918-2013 “It always seems impossible until it's done.” "Courage is not absence of fear, but triumph over it." "There is no passion to be found playing small in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living."

Life is in the climb

To live only for some future goal is shallow. It's the sides of the mountain that sustain life, not the top. Pirsig, Zen & The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance #quote

Life is in the places in between.
Life is in struggle.
Life is in the journey.
Life is in the moment.
Life is in the climb.

How do we balance the need to have goals, work toward them, while not getting so caught up in thinking about some better future state that we don't live in the moment?

Work hard, get lucky

"I'm a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it." - Thomas Jefferson

Thoreau: I went to the woods...

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living so dear.” Thoreau, quoted by Turkle in Alone Together.

Notes from Alone together

(she's talking about the implications of increasingly intelligent robots, how kids interact with them, etc. This is a 12 yr old in one of her research groups.

"When there are computers ...as smart as people, the computers will do a lot of the jobs, but there will still be thingss for the people to do. They will run the restaurants, taste the food & they will be the ones who will have families and love each other. I guess they'll still be the ones who go to church."

Coaching

A good coach is simultaneously the chief cheerleader and chief critic." David H. Maister

Nature/Nurture

Reminded again in Susan Cain's "Quiet" of identical twin research that suggests temperament is roughly half genetic, when looking at a group of people. So it does shape a lot but certainly room for nature's impact and free will. She suggests that introverts might be more influenced by parents.

Look inside quote Jung

Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. - Carl Jung #quote